Dr. Becky's Tips: Connecting with Your Kids Through Gaming

A recent Culture of Play Report revealed that over 70% of gamers are eager to share their passion with younger generations. To support parents in this endeavor, we've teamed up with clinical psychologist and parenting expert Dr. Becky Kennedy.

Dr. Becky has created a series of short videos with Xbox, offering simple strategies for building stronger connections with kids through gaming. These include showing interest by asking questions about the games children enjoy and simply spending time with them while they play. These small steps can lead to more meaningful conversations and help children feel understood and supported.

The video series includes these titles:

• How to Enter Your Child’s Gaming World through Curiosity-Based Questions
• What Your Kid’s’ Favorite Games Can Teach You About Who They Are
• Why Boundaries Matter with Gaming

Understanding the appeal of specific games can provide valuable insights into a child's internal world, revealing their interests in areas like creativity, problem-solving, independence, and the need for structure and safety.

Dr. Becky suggests asking simple questions to understand what aspects of these games resonate with children, using examples like Minecraft or team-based games that are popular among kids.

For families seeking age-appropriate games to enjoy together, here are some options available on Xbox:

• Minecraft
• Bluey: The Videogame
• Paw Patrol World
• Crash Team Racing Nitro-Fueled
• Astroneer

Families aim to integrate gaming into their routines in a way that is both safe and positive, which begins with mutual understanding.

Dr. Becky also emphasizes the importance of establishing clear boundaries before playtime begins and maintaining consistency so that children understand expectations. This helps ensure that gaming remains a positive experience for everyone.

Because every family is unique, it is hoped that these videos will assist you in making choices that are right for your own.

Dr. Becky’s insights complement findings from our Culture of Play Report, providing a valuable perspective on fostering genuine connections through gaming.